Recently Michael helped us explore our vision for the reunion. I am including his minutes. Posts of separate categories with the comment option will follow.
Logistics - Mom plans to start working on it this week
- Thinking about chartering a plane or driving
- Finalize plans
- Share the vision of the trip with the family
- Invite participation in planning and identifying areas they want to help
- Have people feel the freedom to come forward with their ideas and let the structure emerge as people are willing to feel ownership of certain parts of the structure
- Establish categories of activities, things of interest
- Communicate needs for leadership and organization
- Help to create structure, not chaos
- Coordinate for different preferences around having a plan with no deviation vs insisting on deviation
Purposes
- Relationships
- Reinforce our good feelings for each other
- Renew connections and make connections
- Facilitate the kind of honesty of communication, trust, understanding and support that comes from spending time together
- Create lasting relationships
- Renew the genetic and spiritual connections we have from past experiences together and make then strong enough to help with the variables that happen in mortality
- Encourage a good family feeling
- Reinforce the value of time spent together
- Open our lives to include family
- Discover how much honesty and trust is in our relationships
- Help people discover relationships with family member who didn't grow up together
Activities and Plans
- Not having families isolate themselves
- An opportunity for cousins to be together and interact with each other
- Have activities involving different groups
- Encourage water time
- Get the most people involved
- Event-enough oriented that people can be attracted to group activities
- Family dinner (Maybe different families host a meal. Maybe different groups. E.g. maybe the boys or the girls are in charge of a meal)
- Have planning and structure, and also spontaneity (e.g. golf simulator at the warehouse on Christmas Eve.
- Flexible enough to deal with anything that. haplpens
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